DATES TO REMEMBER
A great place to keep track of what is going on at UCM is through our university calendar found at www.ucmo.edu/calendar/.
Additional information regarding payment and registration dates can be found on MyCentral.
HELP YOUR STUDENT TO BE INFORMED!
Do you have trouble remembering all of those campus dates and deadlines? Add "UCM MoInfo" to the Facebook pages that you "like" and you will receive updates from the Office of the Registrar. These announcements will include information regarding course enrollment, graduation, refund dates and other important deadlines. The Registrar's Office also tweets. Check out their Twitter account at "UCMRegistrar".
Small gifts can do BIG things. That’s one of the lessons learned from the first year of the UCM Foundation’s Opportunity Grants. Funded through unrestricted donor gifts, the Opportunity Grants help faculty and staff members with entrepreneurial ideas that improve students’ academic success. With the academic year coming to a close, the Foundation has calculated the impact these projects have had on campus; $25,000 was used towards 16 projects, impacting an estimated 37,689 people around the world.
UCM Black Alumni Association Awards First Scholarships
You can keep track of news and events at UCM at: www.ucmo.edu/news/.
LOOKING AHEAD TO FALL
With summer close at hand, it's time to think about the Fall 2014 semester by enrolling for classes. Fall registration is currently open for students who have not yet registered. Approximately 70% of the first-year class has registered for next fall. We encourage students to register for classes prior to departing for the summer in order to ensure an appropriate mix and amount of classes.
Fall move-in day is Sunday, August 17, in time for classes to begin Tuesday, August 19. For more information, visit the Academic Calendar on our web site.
PROBATION/SUSPENSION AND DISMISSAL
Grades for the Spring 2014 semester will be available on the MyCentral Portal beginning May 15th. Spring semester probation, suspension and dismissal notifications will be sent electronically to students UCMO email accounts as well as through the MyCentral portal. If your student finds themselves on academic probation, please have them contact their academic advisor for assistance in developing an academic recovery plan designed to get them back in good standing academically at the university. If they have been suspended, Central Missouri policy indicates the student will be suspended for one semester (summer not included). Again, the academic advisor can provide information regarding steps the student can take to regain good standing at the university. If they have been dismissed, dismissal is for the period of one calendar year. Reinstatement after suspension and dismissal is not automatic or guaranteed.
LEAVING NEW FRIENDS FROM CENTRAL
Your student is nearing the end of the semester and may be returning home soon for the summer. You and your student may be anxiously awaiting the reunion, excited to celebrate, and “get caught up.” Yet as your student returns home to reunite with family and old friends, they are also bidding farewell to new friends and relationships they have developed at Central. Coping with loss and separation is a natural process that can take many forms. Some of the common indicators of grief include: sadness and tears, irritability, frequently thinking and talking about these friends, loss of appetite and disrupted sleep. Some grieve by throwing themselves into other activities or relationships while they adjust. Keep in mind that what might seem like a small loss to you may be huge for them.
Here are some DOs and DON’Ts to help you support your student as they adjust to these losses.
|DO||Recognize your student may have mixed feelings about the end of the semester.|
|DO||Name it as grief. For example: “I wonder if you’re sad because you miss your friends at Central?”|
|DO||Validate and affirm their grief and pain. For example: “It hurts so much because they are important to you.”|
|DO||Encourage your student to invite a friend to visit during the summer as a way of bridging their home life with their college life.|
|DO||Realize that there is no one best way to grieve. Some people talk about their losses; some cry; some exercise; some get a job.|
|DON’T||Minimize your student’s sense of loss. For example: “You only knew him/her for a few months…or you’ll get over it…you have lots of friends here at home.”|
|DON’T||Assume that you know what they need from you. Ask: “Would anything help?” Often simply having our grief listened to is the “best medicine.”|
|DON’T||Miss the opportunity to help them identify their experience as grief. Grief and responding to a loss is one of the most common and painful of human experiences. Having a word for these feelings will help them cope with future losses. Grieving smaller losses is good practice for the bigger losses we all must face.|
GOING HOME A CHANGED PERSON
Whether it is your student’s first year at college, graduation, or anywhere in between, students change in many ways over the course of their college career. You have undoubtedly been noticing the changes in your student as the years go by, seeing some you like and some you wonder about.
Students will have new friends, new ideas, and maybe even a new appearance (clothes, hairstyle, tattoos, piercings). They will also have had the experience of a different type of freedom than they may have had at home prior to leaving for college. Students may chafe at the idea of curfews or other expectations that existed when they were in high school.
You probably also changed as you experienced home life without your college-age child living with you. While feeling proud and excited about your student’s new phase in life you may also feel an understandable sense of loss over how life used to be. And now you may have to figure out how to get along together for the summer.
Some tips for dealing with this situation:
- Talk about it! Share your mutual observations on how things used to be, how they have changed and what is different now.
- Negotiate on previous rules regarding curfews, chores and other aspects of being under the same roof together.
- Work toward acceptance of what is new and different. Things will not be the same.
- Honor any feelings of loss and sadness about the way things used to be. Your child is becoming an adult!
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