Counseling

 

For many people, they find themselves being the one others turn to with problems or concerns. Counselors often say that they have always been a natural listener or helper. If that rings true for you, it just makes sense to find a career in which you can use those innate abilities! With that said, there are likely many other reasons people become counselors.

 

One reason could be making a difference in the lives of others. Counselors may take the stance that we meet people where they are and help them find different ways to live the lives they want for themselves. For many counselors, it is gratifying to see change happen for other people and also to know that on some level, that was related to the work that happened in the counseling room. Many people look for ways to make a difference in the world around them, and counseling is a way that people can work towards this personal value in their professional lives.

 

Similarly, the idea of the counseling relationship can be a draw for many people. The counseling relationship is a powerful tool, through which growth and change can occur. Although it could be problematic to enter the field solely for a desire to develop close relationships, many counselors find the depth of connection involved in the work to be rewarding. Regardless of the person with whom one is connecting, counselors often note the power of the relationship as a key part of why they love the work. I'm fond of saying that it is such a gift and a privilege to join with someone in a difficult time in their life and be privy to their turmoil. That closeness can be frightening for many people that counselors will serve, and we do not take for granted the power of connection that is present.

 

Some counselors have also noted that they sought out this profession because of the desire to give back, especially if they have benefited from mental health treatment of some sort themselves. Although counselors rarely share their own stories, it may be the people who have persevered and grown through their own challenges who can be the most effective in joining along the way with others through the counseling journey. The idea of the "wounded healer" is helpful to think about here: the idea that all people have experienced pain in their lives, and part of experiencing that pain is that it can give one unique capabilities to also facilitate healing in others.

 

If you're interested in becoming a professional counselor, we invite you to learn more about UCM's Master's in Counseling program at our website: https://www.ucmo.edu/academics/programs/masters-degrees/coe/counseling-and-educational-leadership/counseling-ms/index.php